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‘God bless all three of you’: The day ‘me and my baby’ were saved from abortion

Peter Baklinski
Peter Baklinski

MILWAUKEE, Wisconsin, April 10, 2012 (LifeSiteNews.com) – Mareza Landeros, 19, hadn’t been to church since she was seven.

That way of life had long since become unfamiliar to her, who lived with her boyfriend according to typical young adult standards. Yet Mareza held onto one habit that she had practiced every night since childhood — prayer. She says she remembers feeling during these times a “strong connection with God.”

Then one day Mareza’s life was thrown upside down: she discovered she was carrying her boyfriend’s baby.

She and her boyfriend made a trip to Affiliated Medical Services (AMS) in Milwaukee to determine the stage of the pregnancy and to schedule an abortion.

“We didn’t think anything of abortion. We were just getting rid of something that was a burden,” said Mareza in a video posted on YouTube by Pro-Life Wisconsin. “I’m not a bad person,” she continued, “but I went out there because I was scared and because I was not informed.”

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As the young pregnant mother and her boyfriend pulled into the abortion facility parking lot, they encountered someone they were not expecting.

“I saw this big tall six-foot guy standing in front of the abortion clinic. He didn’t really look like someone who would hand me a pamphlet that said ‘This is your baby growing,’” recalled Mareza.

Dan Miller and a small team of counselors from Pro-Life Wisconsin were at the facility praying that day and interceding for the unborn children who had come there in the wombs of their abortion-bound mothers.

Mareza and her boyfriend brushed past the pro-life witnesses and stood momentarily before the door of the abortion facility, ringing the doorbell and waiting to be admitted.

Suddenly, in a loud voice, the tall man called out to the couple: “God bless you two!”

The mention of God’s name briefly triggered something deep inside Mareza. She surprised herself by turning to face the speaker. In what Mareza now looks upon as an inspired moment of grace, the man gazed at her and shouted once more: “No, God bless all three of you!”

“Those words stayed with me throughout my whole visit with AMS,” Mareza recalled. She told LifeSiteNews that the tall man’s words were “kind of like a slap in the face, but in a good way.”

Mareza recalls entering the abortion facility, shaken to the core by the words of the man outside. For the first time, she says it dawned on her that there was a little person inside of her who had just received God’s blessing. She vividly remembers breaking down and weeping inside the clinic as so many strange but exciting thoughts crowded into her mind. She remembers, too, receiving no compassion from any of the staff.

The facility’s ultrasound technician told Mareza that she was 10 weeks pregnant and that they would remove the ‘pregnancy tissue’ by the suction and curettage method. Mareza was told that the procedure would be a simple, 15-minute, painless process.

At that moment, Mareza says she said something only a concerned mother would think of: “Is the procedure going to hurt the baby?”

“No”, replied the technician.

Mareza says she looked the technician in the face, emphatically repeating: “Is the procedure going to hurt MY BABY?” The technician, she recalls, only stared at her silently.

Mareza says she quietly left the abortion facility with a new feeling of hope. Her boyfriend did not support her decision and very shortly walked out of her life.

Two weeks later, Mareza visited the pro-life Women’s Care Centre, right next door to the same abortion facility. She met the tall man who had called out to her, whose name was Daniel.

“Look, you’ve saved my baby,” she recalls telling him. Baby Joseph was born last September.

Virginia Zignego, communications director for Pro-Life Wisconsin, told LifeSiteNews that she and the pro-life team of counselors “really try to emphasis the humanity of the child to an abortion-bound woman,” and that Dan’s words were inspired.

“‘God bless all three of you’ was definitely the work of the Holy Spirit,” she said.

“There is ‘somebody’ else who is at play here. When they say ‘it’s my body, my choice’, we tell them that once there is a new human life in the equation, then that person should have a choice as well.”

Mareza says she and her son Joseph are flourishing with the help of their new friends at the pro-life center, and now attend the same church as Daniel; baby Joseph was baptized in December. The young mother now attends college and works as a waitress to pay the bills, and has even joined those offering sidewalk counseling to abortion-minded women.

“I always let women know that there is help. I tell each woman that people do care for her and her baby and that she will not have to go through this alone,” says the mother. “At the end, I always remember to tell them ‘God bless you and your baby!’”

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Vatican pressing forward with reform of US feminist nuns: Cardinal Müller

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Cardinal Gerhard Ludwig Müller, prefect of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, says the Vatican is pressing forward with plans to reform the U.S.-based Leadership Conference of Women Religious (LCWR).

In an interview published in the Vatican newspaper L’Osservatore Romano, the cardinal said that the reform of the LCWR, which was undertaken after an assessment of the group found serious doctrinal problems, will be carried out with the goal of helping them "rediscover their identity.”

“Congregations have no more vocations and risk dying out," Müller said. "We have first of all tried to reduce hostility and tensions, partly thanks to Bishop Sartain whom we sent to negotiate with them; he is a very gentle man. We wish to stress that we are not misogynists, we are not women gobblers! Of course we have a different concept of religious life but we hope to help them rediscover their identity.”

Moreover, the cardinal said that problems specific to the LCWR are not a reflection of all the women religious in the US.

"We need to bear in mind that they do not represent all US nuns, but just a group of nuns who form part of an association,” Müller said.

“We have received many distressed letters from other nuns belonging to the same congregations, who are suffering a great deal because of the direction in which the LCWR is steering their mission.”

Cardinal Müller's remarks confirmed the assertion he and the Holy See’s delegate to the LCWR, Archbishop Peter Sartain of Seattle, made in an address to LCWR officials in Rome on April 30, that the theological drift the feminist nuns are taking constitutes a radical departure from the foundational theological concepts of Catholicism.

The Holy See “believes that the charismatic vitality of religious life can only flourish within the ecclesial faith of the Church,” Müller said in the address.

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“The LCWR, as a canonical entity dependent on the Holy See, has a profound obligation to the promotion of that faith as the essential foundation of religious life. Canonical status and ecclesial vision go hand-in-hand, and at this phase of the implementation of the Doctrinal Assessment, we are looking for a clearer expression of that ecclesial vision and more substantive signs of collaboration,” he stated.

The LCWR has openly defied the mandate of reform intended to bring their organization into line with basic Catholic doctrine on the nature of God, the Church, and sexual morality.

Among the CDF’s directives, to which LCWR has strenuously objected, is the requirement that “speakers and presenters at major programs” be approved by Archbishop Sartain. This, Müller has explained, was decided in order to “avoid difficult and embarrassing situations wherein speakers use an LCWR forum to advance positions at odds with the teaching of the Church.”

The LCWR has invited speakers to their Annual Assembly such as New Age guru Barbara Marx Hubbard, and Sr. Laurie Brink, who is particularly noted for flagrantly denying the Divinity of Christ and telling the sisters that to maintain their “prophetic” place in society they need to “go beyond” the Church and even “go beyond Jesus.”

In one of the first public statements of his pontificate, Pope Francis affirmed that the investigation and reform of the LCWR must continue.

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Birth mothers: real heroes of the pro-life movement

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What does it mean to be brave? Is it the doctor who dedicates himself to improving the health of a third-world nation? Is it the woman who faces her third round of chemotherapy to fight the progression of cancer? Is it the teacher who forgoes the comforts of a suburban school to reach minorities in the inner city? All of these are examples of bravery demonstrated in exceedingly challenging circumstances. And our society longs for stories of bravery to inspire us and fill us with hope.

As someone who works day in and day out with those on the front lines of helping rescue babies from abortion, I’m no stranger to stories of bravery. I see courage every day in the eyes of the men and women who sacrifice their time and energy to help women facing unplanned pregnancies. I see it every time a young mom — despite being pressured by her parents or significant other to get an abortion — chooses LIFE. And perhaps more profoundly than in any other situation, I see it when an expectant mom with no relational support, job, or income chooses to place her baby for adoption rather than abort her son or daughter.

This was Nicky’s situation.

When Nicky found herself pregnant with her boyfriend’s child, her life was already in shambles. During her 26 years, Nicky had already given birth to and surrendered sole custody of a little girl, committed several felonies, lived in her car, lost several jobs, and barely subsisted on minimum wage. So when she met up with an old boyfriend, Brandon, Nicky believed she was being given a second chance at happiness. “Our first year together was beautiful. We were getting to know each other and deciding if we would stay together forever.” Unfortunately, a positive pregnancy test result changed everything.

“When I told him I was pregnant, Brandon sat down on the bed, looked me in the eyes, and told me to ‘get an abortion’.” Nicky says those three little words changed everything for her. “I became depressed living with someone who wanted his child ‘dealt with.’”  Like thousands of women every day, Nicky began searching online for information on abortion, hoping her boyfriend would eventually change his mind. Through our strategic marketing methods, Online for Life was able to guide Nicky to a life-affirming pregnancy center where she received grace-filled counsel. “The woman I sat with was beyond wonderful. She helped me to just breathe and ask God what to do….And so I did.”

Nicky left the pregnancy center that day with a new resolve to choose life for her child, even though she still wasn’t sure how she’d financially support a child. “I was alone with just $10 in my pocket…and without any type of plan for what I was going to do.” So Nicky relied on the support of the staff she met at the life-affirming pregnancy center. With their help and through a chain of fortunate events, Nicky was put in contact with the couple who would eventually become her daughter’s adoptive parents.

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After meeting this couple face to face and coming to terms with her own desperate situation, Nicky conceded that the best thing for her unborn child would be to place her in someone else’s loving home. She told Brandon about her plans and he agreed that adoption would give their child the best chance at a happy and secure future. He even returned home to help Nicky prepare for the birth of their child. “The weeks leading up to my delivery were filled with a mixture of laughter, tears, protectiveness and sadness,” Nicky recalls. But one sentiment continued to be shared with her. “Brave…so brave.” That’s what everyone from the life-affirming pregnancy center to the adoption agency to the birthing center kept calling Nicky. “The nurses kept coming up to me and telling me they were honored to care for and treat someone like me.” After several weeks of preparation, Nicky finally gave birth to a healthy baby girl, and she made the dreams of a couple from the other side of the country come true.

Nicky’s adoption story continues to be riddled with a strange combination of pain and joy. “I cry every day, but I know my baby, who came out of a very bad time, ended up being loved by people from across the country.” When asked what message she’d like to share with the world about her decision to give up her child for adoption, Nicky responds, The voice of the mother who gives up a baby for adoption isn’t heard. We need to change that.”

To learn more about Online for Life and how we’re helping to make stories like Nicky and her daughter’s story a possibility, please visit OnlineforLife.org.

Author, speaker, and business leader Brian Fisher is the President and Co-Founder of Online for Life, a transparent, metric-oriented, compassion-driven nonprofit organization dedicated to helping rescue babies and their families from abortion through technology and grace.

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New York farmers stop hosting weddings after $13,000 fine for declining lesbian ceremony

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New York farmers Robert and Cynthia Gifford, who were ordered last week to pay $13,000 for not hosting a same-sex "wedding," say they are closing that part of their operation.

"Going forward, the Giffords have decided to no longer host any wedding ceremonies on their farm, other than the ones already under contract," said Alliance Defending Freedom (ADF) lawyer James Trainor. ADF represented the Giffords in their legal fight against New York's non-discrimination law.

Last week, the Giffords were ordered to pay a $10,000 fine to the state of New York and $3,000 in damages to a lesbian couple, Jennifer McCarthy and Melisa Erwin, who approached them in 2012 about hosting their "wedding." The Giffords, who are Roman Catholic, said their religious convictions would not let them host the ceremony, but that McCarthy and Erwin could hold their reception on their property.

Unbeknownst to the Giffords, the lesbian couple recorded the two-to-three minute conversation. After declining to hold the reception on the Giffords' farm, on which they live and rent property, the lesbian couple decided to make a formal complaint to the state's Division of Human Rights.

Eventually, Judge Migdalia Pares ruled that the Giffords' farm, Liberty Ridge Farm, constitutes a public accommodation because space is rented on the grounds and fees are collected from the public. The Giffords argued that because they live on the property with their children, they should be exempt from the state law, but Pares said that this does not mean their business is private.

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Trainor told TheBlaze that the Giffords' decision to end wedding ceremonies at Liberty Ridge “will hurt their business in the short run," but that was preferable to violating their religious beliefs.

“The Giffords serve all people with respect and care. They have hired homosexual employees and have hosted events for same-sex couples,” he said.

However, "since the state of New York has essentially compelled them to do all ceremonies or none at all, they have chosen the latter in order to stay true to their religious convictions," Trainor explained to LifeSiteNews. "No American should be forced by the government to choose between their livelihood and their faith, but that’s exactly the choice the state of New York has forced upon the Giffords."

"They will continue to host wedding receptions," said Trainor.

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