Sexual Revolution left music great Leonard Cohen bitter, with a dead child
July 26, 2019 (LifeSiteNews) — About a month before he died, I wrote a column on the primitive power of Montreal troubadour Leonard Cohen’s poetry and the strong anti-abortion sentiment that coursed through much of his writing. Especially as he grew older, Cohen also seemed to grow disillusioned with the sexual revolution and the broken hearts and emotional rubble it left behind. Cohen, like so many of the literary elites who came of age in the 1960s, gorged himself on the forbidden fruit with gusto, and so he knew of what he wrote. Free love, as one writer noted, is generally the enemy of true love.
I wondered at the time whether Cohen had any personal experiences with abortion — his lines on the subject are in many places too visceral to be speculative, especially the blunt position laid out in the lyrics of The Future, released in 1992:
Destroy another fetus now
We don't like children anyhow
I've seen the future, baby:
it is murder.
The answer to my question has now been revealed with the release of a documentary by filmmaker Nick Broomfield on Leonard Cohen and his muse, the blonde Norwegian Marianne Ihlen. Ihlen and Cohen met in Greece in the 1960s and embarked on a relationship that sparked and sputtered on and off for six decades, with Cohen writing some of his most memorable lines about her (“your hair upon the pillow, like a sleepy golden storm”). Ihlen even followed him to Manhattan to be close to him in the early days as his career began to soar but became suicidal as Cohen proved faithless as well as romantic.
In many ways, the relationships of the generation that first embraced free love highlight the destructiveness of the Sexual Revolution as powerfully as a sermon. Ihlen grew frustrated with Cohen’s wandering: “I wanted to put him in a cage and swallow the key. It hurt me so much it destroyed me. I was on the verge of killing myself.” She headed to England, where she took up with the much younger filmmaker Nick Broomfield. Soon thereafter, she asked Broomfield to drive her to nearby Bath. She wanted to get an abortion, because she was pregnant with Leonard Cohen’s child.
The aborted child of Leonard Cohen and the young woman he made famous through his music has gone unmentioned until now. “The abortion was difficult for her,” Broomfield recounted. “She didn’t complain. We never discussed whether Leonard had wanted the abortion.” Cohen himself remained silent on the subject, although whenever abortion surfaced in his work, it was nearly always condemned harshly. I wonder if Cohen knew about the child he never met, the little boy or girl who was part him, part Marianne, who died at the hands of an abortionist in Bath. I wonder if the mentions of abortion in his work are about their baby. I wonder if that is why he found so much to hate about the Sexual Revolution, especially as the years wore on and his youth wore off.
They are both gone now — Marianne passed away a few months before Leonard in 2016. Cohen left behind a daughter and a son, whom he’d conceived with Suzanne Elrod. (They eventually split, with Cohen admitting that it was “cowardice” that prevented him from marrying her.) Ihlen left behind one son from the marriage that predated her relationship with Cohen. The child they had conceived together predeceased them by decades, leaving only a hole and the unanswerable questions that the missing casualties of the Sexual Revolution always leave behind.
Free love, after all, isn’t really free. Someone has to pay the price.
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