Rebecca Frazer

One in ten: beauty that escapes the odds

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By Rebecca Frazer
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January 22, 2013 (LiveActionNews.org) - He was beautiful.

I’d been holding the precious baby boy outside a classroom where his mom was attending a scholarship workshop with her teenage daughter. The mom was an acquaintance of mine, and when the baby had begun to fuss during the workshop, she had accepted my offer to hold him outside the room for her until the class was done.

The baby was perfect. His hands were so soft, his back perfectly curved, and his head covered in feathery blond hair. In transferring him to me, his mom had laid his head on my shoulder, and as I held him, he snuggled perfectly into my chest. After the initial fuss, he settled down as a peaceful bundle of warmth.

I was totally in love. After twenty minutes or so, he seemed to be getting a little restless, so I started walking around and showing him things – coat hangers on a coat rack, posters on the wall. He was particularly enamored of the coat hangers, so we hung out there for a while. Then as he got drowsy again, I found a seat and re-situated him in my lap.

It was then that I noticed. Because he had been lying on my shoulder, I had never gotten a good look at his tiny face. But as I moved him into my lap, I noticed the unmistakable.

This child had Down syndrome.

The slanted eyes, the thick neck – the features were clearly distinctive. It took a minute for me to grasp it. This infant had what many hopeful parents would dread – a serious defect. But as I studied his face, my heart couldn’t see defectiveness. Deep in my heart I was, and still am, convinced: this baby was perfect. He was beautiful.

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She was beautiful, too. It was a year later, and I was in a different setting in a different state. I was teaching a debate camp to high school students, and at the particular moment I will describe, I was standing outside a classroom, waiting for a group of students to finish a debate round. A mom whose son was debating in the room also waited outside for him to finish, and with her waited a little girl, probably ten or eleven years old. One look at her face told that she had Down Syndrome.

As she looked at me, her face brightened. I asked her what her name was, and without skipping a beat, she answered confidently, “Princess Sarah Walker!”* I asked her if she liked princesses, and she smiled and pointed to her shoes – a pair of pink Crocs with several princess pins in them. She explained what the pins were with enthusiasm, and then quickly shifted subjects to tell me about her favorite kind of bagels. I smiled, thoroughly enjoying our conversation.

A moment later I excused myself to use the restroom. To my surprise, Sarah followed me right into the bathroom and patiently waited outside my stall. I was a little unsure what she was doing out there, but as I approached the sink, she just stood by the paper towel dispenser watching me, her face bright with that unmistakable smile. As I shook the water off my hands, she meticulously pulled several paper towels out of the paper towel dispenser and handed them to me with a beaming face. I took them with a smile of my own, and we left the bathroom together. When we returned to the hallway we had been waiting in, Sarah hoisted herself onto a table and sat on it. I sat next to her, and absentmindedly began to swing my leg.

Watching me intently, she asked matter-of-factly, “Do you like swinging your legs?”

“Yes I do. Do you?”

“Yes!” she answered with enthusiasm.

And so the leg-swinging began. Side-by-side we sat – me in dress pants and black leather dress shoes and Sarah in jeans and pink-princess Crocs – swinging our legs together. It was beautiful.

She was beautiful.

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Somewhere along the way, the recognition of the beauty of children with Down Syndrome has been completely tossed aside. Most people do not stop and think about the fact that babies with Down Syndrome have little fingers, love to snuggle, and like to play with plastic coat hangers. Most people do not think about children like Sarah, with favorite colors and favorite bagels, with dreams of being a princess, and with hearts so sweet that they might follow you to the bathroom just to get the paper towels for you.

Instead, we think of worthlessness and ugliness. We think of philosophical excuses about quality of life. We think of the impossibilities of fitting “imperfect” children into a perfect life plan.

And we end up living in a country where nine out of ten children known to have Down syndrome are purposely aborted. What we choose to think does not change fact.

These children are beautiful.

Reprinted with permission from LiveActionNews.org

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Pressure mounts as Catholic Relief Services fails to act on VP in gay ‘marriage’

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Rick Estridge, Catholic Relief Services' Vice President of Overseas Finance, is in a same-sex "marriage," public records show. Twitter

BALTIMORE, MD, April 24, 2015 (LifeSiteNews.com) -- Nearly a week after news broke that a Catholic Relief Services vice president had contracted a homosexual “marriage” while also publicly promoting homosexuality on social media in conflict with Church teaching, the US Bishops international relief agency has taken no apparent steps to address the matter and is also not talking.

CRS Vice President of Overseas Finance Rick Estridge entered into a homosexual “marriage” in Maryland the same month in 2013 that he was promoted by CRS to vice president, public records show.

Despite repeated efforts at a response, CRS has not acknowledged LifeSiteNews’ inquiries during the week. And the agency told ChurchMilitant.com Thursday that no action had been taken beyond discussion of the situation and CRS would have no further comment.

"Nothing has changed,” CRS Senior Manager for Communications Tom said. “No further statement will be made."

LifeSiteNews first contacted CRS for a response prior to the April 20 release of the report and did not receive a reply, however Estridge’s Facebook and LinkeIn profiles were then removed just prior to the report’s release.

CRS also did not acknowledge LifeSiteNews’ follow-up inquiry later in the week.

“Having an executive who publicly celebrates a moral abomination shows the ineffectiveness of CRS' Catholic identity training,” Lepanto Institute President Michael Hichborn told LifeSiteNews. “How many others who hate Catholic moral teaching work at CRS?”

CRS did admit it was aware Estridge was in a “same-sex civil marriage” to Catholic News Agency (CNA) Monday afternoon, and confirmed he was VP of Overseas Finance and had been with CRS for 16 years.

“At this point we are in deliberations on this matter,” Price told CNA that day.

ChurchMilitant.com also reported that according to its sources, it was a well-known fact at CRS headquarters in Baltimore that Estridge was in a homosexual “marriage.” 

“There is no way CRS didn't know one of its executives entered into a mock-marriage until we broke the story,” Hichborn said. “The implication is clear; CRS top brass had no problem with having an executive so deliberately flouting Catholic moral teaching.”

“The big question is,” Hichborn continued, “what other morally repugnant matters is CRS comfortable with?”

While the wait continues for the Bishops’ relief organization to address the matter, those behind the report and other critics of prior instances of CRS involvement in programs and groups that violate Church principles continue to call for a thorough and independent review of the agency programs and personnel.

“How long should it take to call an employee into your office, tell him that his behavior is incompatible with the mission of the organization, and ask for his resignation?” asked Population Research Institute President Steven Mosher. “About thirty minutes, I would say.”

“The Catholic identity of CRS is at stake,” Hichborn stated. “If CRS does nothing, then there is no way faithful Catholics can trust the integrity of CRS's programs or desire to make its Catholicity preeminent.” 

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WASHINGTON, D.C., April 24, 2015 (LifeSiteNews.com) -- At noon on Saturday, the National Organization for Marriage (NOM) and dozens of cosponsors, coalition partners, and speakers will launch the third annual March for Marriage. Thousands of people are expected to take place in this important event to show the support real marriage has among the American people.

As the sole media sponsor of the March, LifeSiteNews is proud to exclusively livestream the March. Click here to see the rally at noon Eastern Time near the U.S. Capitol, and the March to the Supreme Court at 1:00 Eastern Time.

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Hillary Clinton: ‘Religious beliefs’ against abortion ‘have to be changed’

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NEW YORK CITY, April 24, 2015 (LifeSiteNews.com) – Speaking to an influential gathering in New York City on Thursday, Hillary Clinton declared that “religious beliefs” that condemn "reproductive rights," “have to be changed.”

“Yes, we've cut the maternal mortality rate in half, but far too many women are still denied critical access to reproductive health,” Hillary told the Women in the World Summit yesterday.

Liberal politicians use “reproductive health” as a blanket term that includes abortion. However, Hillary's reference echoes National Organization for Women (NOW) president Terry O’Neill's op-ed from last May that called abortion “an essential measure to prevent the heartbreak of infant mortality.”

The Democratic presidential hopeful added that governments should throw the power of state coercion behind the effort to redefine traditional religious dogmas.

“Rights have to exist in practice, not just on paper. Laws have to be backed up with resources, and political will,” she said. “Deep-seated cultural codes, religious beliefs, and structural biases have to be changed.”

The line received rousing applause at the feminist conference, hosted in Manhattan's Lincoln Center by Tina Brown.

She also cited religious-based objections to the HHS mandate, funding Planned Parenthood, and the homosexual and transgender agenda as obstacles that the government must defeat.

“America moves ahead when all women are guaranteed the right to make their own health care choices, not when those choices are taken away by an employer like Hobby Lobby,” she said. The Supreme Court ruled last year that closely held corporations had the right to opt out of the provision of ObamaCare requiring them to provide abortion-inducing drugs, contraceptives, and sterilization to employees with no co-pay – a mandate that violates the teachings of the Catholic Church and other Christian bodies.

Clinton lamented that “there are those who offer themselves as leaders...who would defund the country's leading provider of family planning,” Planned Parenthood, “and want to let health insurance companies once again charge women just because of our gender.”

“We move forward when gay and transgender women are embraced...not fired from good jobs because of who they love or who they are,” she added.

It is not the first time the former first lady had said that liberal social policies should displace religious views. In a December 2011 speech in Geneva, then-Secretary of State Hillary Clinton said perhaps the “most challenging issue arises when people cite religious or cultural values as a reason to violate or not to protect the human rights of LGBT citizens.” These objections, she said, are “not unlike the justification offered for violent practices towards women like honor killings, widow burning, or female genital mutilation.”

While opinions on homosexuality are “still evolving,” in time “we came to learn that no [religious] practice or tradition trumps the human rights that belong to all of us.”

Her views, if outside the American political mainstream, have been supported by the United Nations. The UN Population Fund stated in its 2012 annual report that religious objections to abortion-inducing drugs had to be overcome. According to the UNFPA report, “‘duty-bearers’ (governments and others)” have a responsibility to assure that all forms of contraception – including sterilization and abortion-inducing ‘emergency contraception’ – are viewed as acceptable – “But if they are not acceptable for cultural, religious or other reasons, they will not be used.”

Two years later, the United Nations' Committee on the Rights of the Child instructed the Vatican last February that the Catholic Church should amend canon law “relating to abortion with a view to identifying circumstances under which access to abortion services may be permitted.”

At Thursday's speech, Hillary called the legal, state-enforced implementation of feminist politics “the great unfinished business of the 21st century,” which must be accomplished “not just for women but for everyone — and not just in far away countries but right here in the United States.”

“These are not just women's fights. These have to be America's fights and the world's fights,” she said. “There's still much to be done in our own country, much more to be done around the world, but I'm confident and optimistic that if we get to work, we will get it done together.”

American critics called Clinton's suggestion that a nation founded upon freedom of religion begin using state force to change religious practices unprecedented.

“Never before have we seen a presidential candidate be this bold about directly confronting the Catholic Church's teachings on abortion,” said Bill Donohue of the Catholic League.

“In one sense, this shows just how extreme the pro-abortion caucus actually is,” Ed Morrissey writes at HotAir.com. “Running for president on the basis of promising to use the power of government to change 'deep seated cultural codes [and] religious beliefs' might be the most honest progressive slogan in history.”

He hoped that, now that she had called for governments to change religious doctrines, “voters will now see the real Hillary Clinton, the one who dismisses their faith just the same as Obama did, and this time publicly rather than in a private fundraiser.”

Donohue asked Hillary “to take the next step and tell us exactly what she plans to do about delivering on her pledge. Not only would practicing Catholics like to know, so would Evangelicals, Orthodox Jews, Muslims, and all those who value life from conception to natural death.”

You may watch Hillary's speech below.

Her comments on religion begin at approximately 9:00. 

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